10 Quiet Sex Toys That’ll Make “Me Time” Super Discreet

As a mom, carving out moments of intimacy can often feel like a luxury — one that can be difficult to prioritize or achieve when you have young ones around. Maybe you keep saying you want to explore your sexuality more, but the idea of loud buzzing toys feels like a recipe for disaster, what with the risk of waking up a kid or being interrupted mid-moment with a "Mom, what's that sound?!" when you sneak away into the bathroom for a quickie. The last thing you need is a noisy distraction when you're trying to connect with your body and enjoy some peace and pleasure.

This is why finding the perfect quiet sex toy for your needs is important. Quiet sex toys aren't just about keeping things hush-hush and peaceful; they can actually enhance your experience by fostering focus and connection without any external distractions.

When looking for the best quiet sex toys, sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers sexual wellness brand, says it's ideal to find toys that fit into your lifestyle.

"For instance, if you travel a lot, you should get a toy that comes with a travel lock so that it doesn't accidentally go off in your suitcase," she says. "If you are a squirter (especially after vaginal childbirth), you should get a quiet toy that is also waterproof to accommodate your needs. If you are a person who likes suction, your best bet is to find an air pulsator that will satisfy your clitoral needs."

Below, these quiet sex toy options offer a subtle yet powerful way to rediscover intimacy without the noise.

Womanizer Premium 2.0

"This is one of my favorite toys because of the amount of amazing features it has," says Stewart. "Not only is it quiet, but it's also touch-sensitive, meaning it will only turn on once it's actually in contact with your skin. The air pulse is a great touch, and it has so many vibrational and pulse speeds so you can find the preferred rhythm for your body."

Zumio

"The pinpoint precision of the Zumio's rotating tip makes it perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation," Rachel Wright, licensed psychotherapist and sex educator for Zumio, says. "It's lightweight, ergonomic, and uniquely designed to deliver focused pleasure without overwhelming intensity. The whisper-quiet motor ensures discretion, making it ideal for shared spaces or moments when privacy is key."

Pure Wand Metal Dildo

Stainless steel, weighted, and comfortable to hold, the Pure Wand Metal Dildo is a must-have for anyone looking to explore new internal sensations, says sex educator Tim Lagman.

"No batteries are required, so you won't get any noise," he says. "The curve is designed for optimal G-spot and P-spot stimulation, making it great for both vaginal and anal play. Plus, the toy comes in a discreet yet sexy box for easy storage and away from prying eyes."

We-Vibe Nova 2.0

"People love the flexibility of this toy, as well as the fact that it can pleasure the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time," says Stewart. "Not only can you use it in a hot tub with ease because it's waterproof, but it also has a great travel lock to prevent accidentally turning on. Additionally, the Nova is not only for vaginal penetration; you can use this toy to penetrate anally if you prefer that sensation with your clitoral stimulation."

Dame Pom

Wright recommends this soft, flexible vibrator that molds to your body for a personalized experience. "It's excellent for broad or pinpoint stimulation and fits comfortably in your hand," she says. "The Pom is powerful and subdued, with a quiet motor that keeps things intimate and discreet."

Lovense Ferri App-Controlled Magnetic Panty Vibrator

"Clocking in at 43db, about the same noise level as hushed chats in a library, the Ferri is a great externally stimulating wearable toy that you can take with you wherever you go," Lagman says.

With 3.5 hours of continuous use, the Ferri is designed to be used wherever you go with whatever underwear you're wearing. "The magnet keeps the toy securely in place, and it's completely waterproof," Lagman explains. "You can use the app to control the vibration speeds of this small yet mighty toy measuring at three inches."

Fun Factory Vim Wand

This weighted rumble wand is the strongest toy in the collection, according to Stewart. "Vim is also 50% quieter and 32% lighter than other leading wands," she says. "People love the grip, texture, and feel of this wand."

Lelo Sona Cruise

Using sonic waves rather than direct vibration, Wright says the Sona Cruise stimulates more deeply and intensely, offering a unique experience for clitoral pleasure. "Its sonic technology makes it quieter than traditional vibrators, so you can focus on the sensations without worrying about noise," she explains.

We-Vibe Sync Go

At a very demure three inches, Lagman says the We-Vibe Sync Go is the perfectly discreet sex toy for both solo and partner play, ensuring maximum discretion. "We-Vibe prides itself on how quiet its toys are, with no toy being louder than a whisper," he says. "The Sync Go has a generous charge time considering how small it is. It's perfect for both internal and external simultaneous stimulation. It's waterproof, comes with a carrying case for traveling, and it has a companion app."

Fun Factory Manta

Wright recommends this versatile vibrator for external stimulation or enhancing partner play, especially for penis-focused sensations. Its design, she says, makes it ideal for solo or couple exploration. Plus, "the Manta's quiet motor makes it a solid choice for discreet couple's play without disrupting the mood."