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No-Bullshit Lingerie That's Comfortable And Sexy AF

by Alesandra Dubin
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Yo, don’t get us started on mom lingerie stereotypes. Just because we birthed babies does not automatically transition us to the granny panties club. Tattered old shapeless lingerie? Hard pass. Just like, you know, non-moms, we want to look and feel our best in our underthings. That said, the thong panties we wore (OK, I wore) riding above low-slung jeans in college do tend to lose their bedazzle over time, as our bodies change and we grow up a bit. The boobs might grow or shrink, the hips might expand — in short, the cargo shifts. But you’re still looking good as hell, and you deserve some sexy lingerie.

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So whether you’re a postpartum mom in search of nursing functionality and comfort (yes, comfort can be beautiful, too), or you’re in a whole new phase of life with older kids, consult our list of the best lingerie that makes you look and feel great.

Best Hot Mom Lingerie:

Never Say Never Candie Padded Bra
$98.50
Savage Not Sorry Lace Bodysuit
$74.95
Petal Lace Plunge

ThirdLove prides itself on offering inclusive sizing for all styles. Which means you can score a sexy, lacy bra even if you’re a size G (something that a lot of lingerie brands haven’t done a great offering up until now). We love this earthy bra that plunges and features flirty two-tone flirty lace. The memory foam cups give you support and shape, and the front keyhole detail ties it all together.

$75
Aerie Eyelash Lace Boybrief Underwear
$8.94
Pimlico Non Pad Underwire Sheer Balcony Bra
$54
Body By Victoria Full-Coverage Racerback Bra
$44.50
Rosa Kimono
$88
Natori Plunge Maternity and Nursing Bra
$68
Gisele Slip

Agent Provocateur is a splurge, but the lingerie retailer’s got some fantastic dramatic and ~sexy~ options. We love this bright red slip because it’s gorgeous and still comfy, but if you’re in the mood for something even zestier, Agent P. has got a lot of lacy, cheeky styles to choose from.

$310
High-Waisted Postpartum Recovery Panties
$32.99
RicherPoorer Classic Bralette

Newsflash: You don’t need underwire to be sexy. RicherPoorer’s cult-favorite Classic Bralette proves that sometimes, natural comfort is as sexy as it gets. It’s available in 10 neutral-to-rich shades, but we’re diggin’ this spicy red velvet color if you’re looking for something romantic. Consider getting the matching button-front boxer briefs, too!

$32
Montelle Cup-Sized Lace Bralette

Sexy, comfy, and made to fit … check, check, check! Montelle’s Cup-Sized Lace Bralettes are actually designed for women with fuller busts. They’re available in band sizes 30-42 and cup sizes B/C, D/E, and F/G to ensure a better fit than your standard bralette. Made with pretty, stretchy lace, this little piece of negligee is as fitting for your WFH workday as it is for the bedroom. And psst … you can get the matching panties, too! It’s available in a dozen colors and some are even sold on Amazon.

$48

SHOP THE STORY

Savage Not Sorry Lace Bodysuit
$74.95
Never Say Never Candie Padded Bra
$98.50
Aerie Eyelash Lace Boybrief Underwear
$8.94
Natori Plunge Maternity and Nursing Bra
$68
Pimlico Non Pad Underwire Sheer Balcony Bra
$54
Body By Victoria Full-Coverage Racerback Bra
$44.50
Rosa Kimono
$88
High-Waisted Postpartum Recovery Panties
$32.99
Petal Lace Plunge

ThirdLove prides itself on offering inclusive sizing for all styles. Which means you can score a sexy, lacy bra even if you’re a size G (something that a lot of lingerie brands haven’t done a great offering up until now). We love this earthy bra that plunges and features flirty two-tone flirty lace. The memory foam cups give you support and shape, and the front keyhole detail ties it all together.

$75
Gisele Slip

Agent Provocateur is a splurge, but the lingerie retailer’s got some fantastic dramatic and ~sexy~ options. We love this bright red slip because it’s gorgeous and still comfy, but if you’re in the mood for something even zestier, Agent P. has got a lot of lacy, cheeky styles to choose from.

$310
RicherPoorer Classic Bralette

Newsflash: You don’t need underwire to be sexy. RicherPoorer’s cult-favorite Classic Bralette proves that sometimes, natural comfort is as sexy as it gets. It’s available in 10 neutral-to-rich shades, but we’re diggin’ this spicy red velvet color if you’re looking for something romantic. Consider getting the matching button-front boxer briefs, too!

$32
Montelle Cup-Sized Lace Bralette

Sexy, comfy, and made to fit … check, check, check! Montelle’s Cup-Sized Lace Bralettes are actually designed for women with fuller busts. They’re available in band sizes 30-42 and cup sizes B/C, D/E, and F/G to ensure a better fit than your standard bralette. Made with pretty, stretchy lace, this little piece of negligee is as fitting for your WFH workday as it is for the bedroom. And psst … you can get the matching panties, too! It’s available in a dozen colors and some are even sold on Amazon.

$48

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