Samantha Darby

Samantha is a #girlmom to three little ladies, and a Senior Lifestyle Editor and writer for Romper. She began at Romper in 2015 as a lifestyle writer before the site officially launched, working out of Google docs when Romper didn’t even have a name, and became a lifestyle editor in 2017. In 2022, she was promoted to Senior Lifestyle Editor. Samantha covers a wide variety of topics under the lifestyle umbrella, including parenting, TTC, pregnancy, sex and relationships, and product roundups. She also focuses a lot of her work on baby name coverage, essays about motherhood, children’s books, and holiday content. She loves a good, wholesome, Jennifer Garner-vibes essay.

In 2020, she won a BDG Edit Award for Best Headline for When Grandmas Duel, We All Win, Don’t We?

Before working at Romper, Samantha worked as a freelance writer and had essays published at Motherlode, HelloGiggles, Barnes & Noble Kids, Babble, Work It, Mom!, and The Huffington Post. She also dabbled a bit in digital marketing and writing content for small businesses. She’s currently working on a novel.

On her way to becoming a full-time writer and editor, Samantha was a professional actor in Atlanta, doing stand-up comedy, sketch comedy, theatre, and generally auditioning her heart out. It was good practice for motherhood, where she routinely has to follow the exact scripts her daughters give her while playing Barbies. She lives in Georgia with her husband and her three girls — Alice, Lucy, and Clara.

You can contact Samantha by email at samantha.darby@bustle.com or find her on Twitter or LinkedIn.

Plz Send Coffee

A Desperate Mom Wanted To Know What To Do When Your Kids Wake Up Too Early & Parents Had The Best Responses

By Samantha Darby

Here are a bunch of tips and tricks from parents who have survived the pre-dawn wake-ups.

Well, This Is Nice!

One Mom Is Letting Her Adult Kid Live With Her Rent-Free & The Internet Is Being Super Supportive

By Samantha Darby

In this economy?

🐣🐰🌷

What The Scary Mommy Editors Are Putting In Their Kids’ Easter Baskets

By Samantha Darby

Besides jelly beans and sidewalk chalk.

Can you keep a secret?

“My Spouse Came Out As Trans & Our Sex Life Has Never Been Better” & 34 Other Mom Confessions

By Samantha Darby

March has been quite the month.

Trying New Things? Check!

This Parent’s Worried Their 12-Year-Old Lacks A “Spark”

By Samantha Darby

But Reddit had some really good ideas to help your kind find what they love.

The Night Shift

This Is Why Your Teen Always Wants To Talk At Bedtime

By Samantha Darby

Just when you’re ready to sleep... they’re ready to yap.

No, Thank You

This Mom’s Husband Wants Her To Find A “Better Paying Job” Than Being A Barista

By Samantha Darby

Even though she loves it — and can bring her kids to work with her.

Beach, Please

Don’t Be Weird: Let Your Kids Interact With Kids They Don’t Know In Public

By Samantha Darby

At the playground, on vacation, at the aquarium — it’s good and healthy.

Bring On The Sunshine

Is It #MomLife Or Is It A Vitamin D Deficiency?

By Samantha Darby

All that exhaustion and brain fog could have a surprisingly simple (and addressable) explanation.

Let Them Be Little (Yes, Still)

This Mom Says Pretend Play Is The Secret To Getting Her Teen Daughter To Open Up

By Samantha Darby

Tell me why this would 100% work on me, too.

Whew, This Hits

This Mom Of Grown Kids Says “Most Of The Important Work Is Done In Repair”

By Samantha Darby

Her advice is a reassuring reminder that you don’t have to be perfect to be a good parent.

Love *Is* An Open Door

This Dad Says We Need To “Leave The Door Open” More For Our Kids

By Samantha Darby

When we’re working out, when we’re sneaking away for quiet time, when we just need a moment to focus — maybe the door being open isn’t such a bad idea.

Too Much Privacy?

Should Teens Have Locks On Their Bedroom Doors?

By Samantha Darby

One mom asked Reddit if she's creating an “unsafe environment” by letting her teen have a door lock.

"Good Girl" but better

“Praise Kink” Is The Perfect Mixture Of Dirty Talk & Affirmations

By Samantha Darby

And it can make you feel really seen during sex.

Screen-Free Time Is One Thing, But This? Nah.

This Mom Says She’s Not Taking Her Kid’s Phone Away As Punishment Anymore

By Samantha Darby

It's a quick way to get your point across, but is it actually effective?

Oh boy.

“Should I Tell My Husband I Want To Be With A Woman?” & 28 Other Sex Confessions

By Samantha Darby

Having a solid partnership is work.

We Need An Extra Grown-Up

What Do You Do When You’re Tired On Your Husband Being "The Fun Parent"?

By Samantha Darby

And when you’re tired of cleaning up his mess when he has an idea.

This Is Real Generational Wealth

5 Creative Ways You Can Preserve Memories Of Your Parents *Now* For You & Your Kids

By Samantha Darby

You don't want to wake up one day and wish you had even just one recording of their voice.

Send Help Plz

"Institutional Lag" Is One Big Reason Working Moms Are Barely Holding It Together

By Samantha Darby

The school day schedule we use today was built when we had a very different home labor setup, and it *shows.*

Communication Is Key

One Mom Asked Reddit, “How Do You Maintain A Close Relationship With Your Teens?”

By Samantha Darby

And there are some incredibly wholesome tips.