40 Years, Already? Here Are The Best 40th Anniversary Gifts To Celebrate

After 40 years married you may think you know everything about a person, but the Actually Curious card game – which asks tough questions that progressively get more thought-provoking and sensitive – will challenge that. These aren’t goofy “would you rather?” questions; these are “what are you willing to fight for?” type of questions. Because it’s never too late to know more about your partner. 

Kendra Scott may have intended this ruby red pendant bracelet to represent a recipient’s birthstone (hi July babies!), but it also makes for a sweet 40th anniversary gift. It’s adjustable with a slide closure to make for a perfect fit. If you’re shopping for a not-so-flashy type, this lightweight ruby necklace is it. Hint: there’s also a matching necklace available!

These criss-cross slippers are everything you want in a pair of house shoes: durable, anti-skid, thick padding, and – most importantly – insanely soft. Plus, this ruby red color makes them a shoe-in (get it?) for a 40th anniversary present. More than 12,000 Amazon reviewers love them too, including one who says, “It feels like you are walking on clouds!”

The luxurious robe from Parachute  will make you feel like you’re walking around in a spa right at home. The soft cotton is ultra cozy — extremely fitting for your at-home spa day. One happy customer raved, “I love the robe, it is nice and keeps me warm too! I like the terry inside and the light feel. It does not feel heavy which is a major plus for me. The terry inside is soft on the skin and is very absorbent. The robe is made of quality material and it is cozy. The length of the sleeve and the robe is just about right.”

Bearaby somehow (we don’t know how) created the most beautiful weighted blanket ever. One you will want to drape over your couch and show off to all your guests, and use all night after they leave. It’s not cheap though, so it makes for a great gift for a big occasion. (A 40th anniversary, perhaps?) Plus, it encourages our two favorite things: a better night’s sleep and cuddling under a blanket with your honey. The pomegranate color is perfect for a ruby-themed 40th anniversary gift.

An alarm clock for an anniversary gift? Hear us out. A Lofie isn’t any old alarm clock. Instead you’re guaranteeing your partner (or parents) a better night’s sleep and much happier mornings – the ultimate gift. Loftie lets you leave your phone in another room overnight, and includes a nightlight, white noise, wellness content (like sound baths and breathwork) and, oh yeah, an alarm that gently lulls you awake. Bonus: it also doubles as a speaker!

Who would have ever thought we’d be recommended a gun of any sort as an anniversary gift? But here we are! If your partner or parents haven’t treated themselves to a massage gun yet, now’s your chance. This one from TOLOCO relieves muscle fatigue and pain, as well as promote blood circulation, through its deep tissue massage. It has 20 speed levels, so there’s an intensity level that’s right for every person and every muscle.

A caffeinated house is a happy house, which is why a well-made coffee maker, like this OXO design is a perfect gift for an anniversary. While it’s upscale, it’s not difficult to use – a must for older generations who don’t want to fuss with all sorts of buttons. A single dial lets you choose the number of cups, as well as program the time and set the automatic wake-up timer. Just talking about it is making us crave another cup of coffee!

Hello, nostalgia! After 40 years of marriage, there are a lot of memories to look back on, which you can now assemble into one of childhood’s greatest gadgets: the reel viewer. Add your own shots into the viewer to make for a surprising (and affordable) gift  any giftee would love. Before you know it, everyone will be passing it around to recall a baby’s first step, that road trip to the Grand Canyon, and of course, the wedding.

Cheers to 40 years! Toast to all the ways you love each other with these beautiful hand-engraved glasses that were made in Tennessee by a third generation stone wheel engraver. Personalize them with the lovebirds’ initials and wedding date. You’ve got the option of a set of two wine glasses, two pilsner glasses, or one of each.

A gift for the happy couple and for the whole family, Rememory is a sweet, thoughtful card game for recalling treasured moments you can get an “aww” or a laugh out of. To play the game, it’s as simple as one player choosing three cards: one card with the person the memory must include (say a friend, sibling, or grandparent), one card that names a time frame, and one card with a loose prompt such as “the accomplishment.” With 40+ years of memories together, this gift is sure to unearth some good ol’ times.

Say the lovebirds met in Memphis, honeymooned in Barcelona, and raised children in Charlston. This personalized art, made of these mountain-shaped maps of special cities, will show off their favorite places. Take it from one reviewer, who said, “Love this piece! Came out beautiful, and you can see the care that goes into making these. It is for my parents’ anniversary and they will love it.”