90+ Slightly Dirty And Fantastically Flirty "Would You Rather" Questions

How well do you know your partner and their preferences? Whether your significant other is someone who’s been in your life for six minutes or six years, they can be full of surprises. Those surprises usually come to light when you play games like Truth or Dare or Never Have I Ever. Why? These fun and at times risky games can lead to big revelations and deliciously shocking answers. To that end, we’d like to suggest something a bit more light-hearted, yet still insightful: dirty Would You Rather questions.

We’re almost positive that these types of Q&A games for couples are rarely suggested as a way to bond. Instead, they’re used to get information and often stir up trouble, especially when more than two people are playing. It doesn’t mean they can’t be used to bond, though. Sometimes you start questioning because you’re curious and end up lost in genuinely deep conversation. While “Would You Rather?” is typically played at parties and sleepovers, why not change it up a bit? Share these delightfully naughty and revealing questions with your partner. Go ahead; ask them on your one-month anniversary! Or, hey, hold onto them until your fiftieth — you’re sure to unearth new info about each other and still have some flirty fun.

Looking for more questions to get to know your partner? Check out our pages on questions to ask your spouse, newlywed questions, and more.

1. Would you rather be in a loveless marriage or a sexless marriage?
2. Would you rather be in a committed relationship or be friends with benefits?
3. Would you rather have a one-night stand with a stranger or your platonic best friend?
4. Would you rather have sex “in public” or in a secret hiding place?
5. Would you rather have a lackluster proposal in bed or no proposal at all?
6. Would you rather accidentally send nudes to a stranger or your parents?
7. Would you rather make out with someone at a nightclub or make out with someone at a funeral?
8. Would you rather be surprised in bed or always know what’s coming?
9. Would you rather be naked or wear full-coverage underwear?
10. Would you rather get nudes or send nudes?
11. Would you rather wear comfy clothes or sexy clothes to bed?
12. Would you rather be financially satisfied or sexually satisfied?
13. Would you rather have a quickie or an all-night escapade?
14. Would you rather be hated by everyone but me or loved by everyone but me?
15. Would you rather accidentally scream the wrong name in bed or have your partner accidentally scream the wrong name in bed?
16. Would you rather walk in on your parents or have your parents walk in on you?
17. Would you rather be on top or bottom?
18. Would you rather me be flirty or funny?
19. Would you rather have your hair pulled or your butt smacked?
20. Would you rather get a good morning text or a good night text?
21. Would you rather be kissed goodbye or left to sleep?
22. Would you rather shower with your celebrity crush or your high school crush?
23. Would you rather grant romantic wishes or have your own romantic wishes granted?
24. Would you rather shower together or apart?
25. Would you rather stay in or go out?
26. Would you rather read 50 Shades Of Grey or watch 50 Shades Of Grey?
27. Would you rather be called icy or overly emotional?
28. Would you rather have the lights on or off?
29. Would you rather always initiate sex or have a “needing” partner?
30. Would you rather have kinky sex or romantic sex?
31. Would you rather go on a romantic getaway together or go on a short vacation by yourself?
32. Would you rather have car sex or shower sex?
33. Would you rather we sext or Zoom sex?
34. Would you rather bring food into the bedroom or props?
35. Would you rather cover me in edible body paint or have me wear edible undergarments?
36. Would you rather mess around to your high school make-out mix or a random Spotify playlist?
37. Would you rather get a tattoo with my name in a secret spot or get matching tattoos?
38. Would you rather know my romantic fantasy or tell me yours?
39. Would you rather be blindfolded or have me wear the blindfold?
40. Would you rather have someone who is vocal in bed or who likes to keep it in?
41. Would you rather be snowed in with your crush or lay on the beach with your crush?
42. Would you rather go watch a movie or go watch the sunset?
43. Would you rather kiss me in public or kiss me in private?
44. Would you rather let your spouse date your best friend or your arch enemy?
45. Would you rather be with a jealous hardworking partner or a lazy but trusting partner?
46. Would you rather have a lover who’s obsessed with pets or hates pets?
47. Would you rather date someone with no emotions or date a compulsive liar?
48. Would you rather fall in love with someone who’s allergic to all your favorite food, or someone who makes embarrassing dad jokes?
49. Would you rather follow your heart or your head while making important decisions about your love life?
50. Would you rather sneeze every time you orgasm, or orgasm every time you sneeze?
51. Would you rather get spanked or do the spanking?
52. Would you rather wear never be able to wear sweatpants again, or have to wear sequins all the time?
53. Would you rather go back in time to know me longer or just spend more time together in the future?
54. Would you rather Instagram Live every argument we have or never use the internet again?
55. Would you rather have to cook every meal or eat out every meal?
56. Would you rather send nudes to your boss or to your parents?
57. Would you rather spit or swallow?
58. Would you rather be cheated on by a partner, or cheat on a partner?
59. Would you rather never wear underwear again or never wear socks again?
60. Would you rather have to eat food with moldy jam on it once a day, or never eat a meal with me again?
61. Would you rather be able to see your own future or be able to see everyone else’s future, but not your own?
62. Would you rather marry someone who had a pet boa constrictor that lived in a flimsy cage, or someone who hated dogs and who wouldn’t let you have one?
63. Would you rather never receive oral again or never smoke weed again?
64. Would you rather have your naughty search history published or never be able to get aroused watching a naughty movie?
65. Would you rather give a lap dance or get one?
66. Would you rather be kissed on the lips over and over or be kissed all over?
67. Would you rather be restrained or do the restraining?
68. Would you rather dress sexy and have a luxurious night on the town, or stay home in sweats and snuggle?
69. Would you rather make-out in an elevator or the back of a taxicab?
70. Would you rather hold hands or have a hand placed on the small of your back?
71. Would you rather do it against the wall or on the bed?
72. Would you rather suck at foreplay or suck at sex?
73. Would you rather wield the dominatrix whip or be whipped?
74. Would you rather have a drawer full of sex toys or kinky outfits?
75. Would you rather have sex on the kitchen table or the washing machine?
76. Would you rather orgasm loudly every time you saw your crush or never orgasm again?
77. Would you rather have weak orgasms every time you had sex or strong orgasms every once in a while?
78. Would you rather be horny 24/7 or only one day of the year?
79. Would you rather have sex every day of the week no matter what or just once a month?
80. Would you rather have sex in the shower or in a bath?
81. Would you rather have the ability to have multiple orgasms on command or have orgasms that last for hours?
82. Would you rather have a happy five-year relationship or a one-night stand with your celebrity crush?
83. Would you rather accidentally fart during sex or during a big job presentation?
84. Would you rather use Nutella in sexual food play or maple syrup?
85. Would you rather spend a vacation with your bae curled up by the fire in a mountain resort, or with your toes in the sand at an upscale beach resort?
86. Would you rather make love by a roaring fire or on the beach to the sound of the surf?
87. Would you rather make love three times a day for two months straight or not make love for a month?
88. Would you rather touch yourself in private or in the presence of your significant other?
89. Would you rather give a lap dance or a striptease?

1. Would you rather have sex in a restaurant bathroom or an airplane bathroom?
2. Would you rather wrestle naked in jelly or melted chocolate?
3. Would you rather have the ability to see 10 minutes into the future or 150 years into the future?
4. Would you rather have universal respect or unlimited power?